A当男人爱(ài )上女人时(shí ),该如何去爱?爱(ài )对方,需要(yào )体贴关怀,但不是(shì )事无巨细,她需要(yào )自己的空(kōng )间,有自己解决问(wèn )题的能力和方式;作为男(nán )人,要在她需要的(de )时候成为(wéi )她牢固的依靠,但(dàn )有时候,when u don't know, just say u don't know. and the only thing u need to do is listening and company